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Telling the Truth in a Relationship
Growing is not an easy task and learning the fine art of understanding women is not an easy task.
During the course of both, you are going to have to look at your behavior, actions, and personal appearance pretty hard. Yet how you look at these things can determine whether or not you are going to be successful with women.
When you look seriously at yourself, you might decide that you arent in the best shape of your life to get a woman. No big deal. What can you change immediately and what cant you? Our perceptions shape everything we think and feel. So if we think that the only way to get a woman is to lie to her we arent going to be very successful in keeping her. Where do we find the positive truth in a negative aspect?
Negativity is only negativity when we want it to be. Lets say you have a small penis and you decide that you want to date a woman that you already know has seen more than just one or two penises in her lifetime. What is your truth? Do you have a small penis or do you have an excellent little penis? The way you perceive your shortcoming is going to determine whether or not it is an issue.
The process of growing and learning is also a process of uncovering the lies we tell ourselves. We can be awesome liars to ourselves. In fact, we do it so often and regularly that end up doing it without even realizing it. Before you know it we are pushing our reality down and we are building relationship after relationship on a premise of lies. Getting real with you first allows you to make the necessary adjustments in your attitudes and behaviors that are more conducive to meeting great women.
Everything we ultimately believe about ourselves is something we communicate to the women we meet. If we believe we arent worthy of their attention, we communicate that just as easily as when we communicate that they are not worthy of ours. Not one human being on the planet is really issue free, but there are plenty of men who learn to view their issues as simple parts of them that are still valuable even if they arent perfect. When you look at yourself either physically or emotionally, you can start to develop healthier attitudes about you and what youre all about in a relatively short period of time. You just have to start believing in new ideas about you.
Part of believing new ideas about you starts with understanding why we think its a big deal. Having a small penis doesnt have to be a big deal. It is only a big deal if you believe that you cant use it to satisfy women. Its only a big deal if you believe it makes a statement about who you are or what you are capable of.
