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Why Do People Think Gold Diggers Are Bad?
Today we are going to have a look at a derogatory label that gets bandied around a bit. The “gold digger”.
There are women in the world who enjoy a life of abundance. As such they pursue and date wealthy men exclusively. “Rich” is one of their criteria for a potential partner.
People are different throughout the world. Every difference comes with its own pleasures and comes with its own pressures. Being rich is only one of those differences and its not for everyone. If you don’t think there are pressures for the rich, just look at the gossip section of any magazine. Not everyone can handle the pressures associated with abundance. That is why for so many people, winning the lottery is the worst thing that ever happened to them. It destroys their life.
Being rich is not for everyone. Personally, I’d prefer a fulfilling life with my family than give the priority and commitment to career that many of the wealthy have. But that is just me. In our amazing world of difference and variety, there are people who can only exist with the benefits and pressures of such an existence. Living in such a reality is what brings out the best in them and is the reality where they can be “whole”.
So why is it then, when someone understands themself, knows that this type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best person they can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar view on life, they are labelled a “gold digger”. Its just silly. Once again, it seems people label other people simply because of their own intolerance.
So if you know what you need in life, just go for it. There will be detractors no matter what you do. If you need a wealthy man to be the person you want to be, good luck to you. There certainly are enough websites out there to cater to your needs.
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
